Positvity!

Friday, July 15, 2011

Positvity!

After reaching out to people in my life, I realized that I have some healthy friends after all. I've decided to start focusing on the positive friendships I have and putting more energy towards them. I'm not going to cut off my longtime girlfriends, but if we grow apart naturally I'm okay with that. I'll take it day by day and go from there. My first goal is that when negativity inches in, I'm going to brush it aside and change the subject to something positive. Hopefully that will help me and my friends.

I have 2 birthday parties to attend this weekend. One is for my nephew who is turning 2 and the other is my friend's kid who is turning 3. I will stay as long as I feel comfortable and leave when any behavior that is unfavorable starts around The Baby. It is going to be a great weekend and I'm going to enjoy it with The Baby and The Man!

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I started this blog as a tool for myself. Figuring out who I am, who I want to be and how I want to get there.

Sometimes it's easier for me to reflect on the people in my lives first in order to then reflect on myself. I think in general a lot of people are the same way. It's easier to see how other people act and have an opionion about it than it is to look at how we act ourselves and our opionon about ourselves.

If what I say strikes a chord within you and helps you along your life journey too, I think that's great! If it offends you, well, I'm sorry. I'm being honest with myself and the people in my space for the first time in my life and seeing where it takes me and how it effects me. It may be overwhelming for some people, which is why I chose this arena to go about it. It's my space to be me and work things out in my life.

What I Want to be When I Grow Up

I turned 31 1/2 today and last week I had my first "aha" moment and realized what I want to be when I grow up....an Expressive Moment Therapist with an emphasis on dance. I've been dancing since I was 3 years old and have been a counselor to all of my friends for what feels like forever. I've decided that I'm tired of trying to fix people for free and would like to get paid for it. Not only that, but I've wanted to do something dance like for a profession for my entire life, but unfortunately god (and my parents) did not bless me with a dancers body. My most recent revelation has shown me that I can do what I love and make a career out of it. Mind you, I have GED with some junior college dance classes and that's the extent of my education. I'll have to go back to school and work on the degrees and certificate required to get where I want to go. If you know me, you know that when I put my mind to something there is no stopping me and when I really want it, I will work hard to acheive it. Dance and music were always the classes that I got straight A's in because they have always been my passion. It's time to apply that passion to my new path and acheive my dreams!!! :)

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